Make Everyday Special for Your Child

In this week’s show we talked to Dr. Nicole Ware Spencer of Pine Rest Christian Services.  Here’s what she had to say about making kids feel special.

What are some simple things parents can do with their kids to make them feel special?

One thing I recommend is giving your children hugs daily.  This takes no time at all and it’s a very special and powerful connection that can alter behavior and make someone feel loved.
 
Parents can also do simple things like leave notes on their child’s pillow, lunch bag or on the bathroom mirror.  These notes can have positive messages such as “I love you,” or “You’re an awesome kid.”  Teenagers also value positive messages such as “You’re a special part of my life.”

Parents can also hold weekly meetings for about 20-30 minutes.  During these meetings children and teenagers can share about important events, updates or other information.  Kids feel empowered when their imputs are valued and appreciated.  Parents can also use this time to make sure they’re on the same page with their kids.

Why is it important for parents to make that extra effort to make their kids feel special?

With the busyness of today’s society, parents and children can often feel overwhelmed with constantly being on the go.  It’s important to not let those hectic days get in the way of quality time and consistency.

Many of today’s families have limited finances and just can’t afford to do things that cost money?  What are some low-cost options?

There are so many things that families can do for free.  Parents can have a movie night with kids and pop microwave popcorn and rent a video.  Or have a game night with playing cards and homemade Pictionary.  With teenagers, parents can ask to have two “date nights” month with their child and plan a fun activity together.

Is talking with our kids really important?

Research shows that when parents spend at least 10 minutes a day with their child, it can open the doors to communication about various topics such as school, peer relationships and even sexuality.